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Yellow wrote:
Of course I do, but I'm making the point that sexist talk isn't purely a problem for women, Good grief man! I never said it was. Put me on the spot and I will claim it is a heck of a lot more common for women to experience sexism in the workplace but that in no way means it is limited to women and if you unfortunate enough to be on the back end of it, your gender is irrelevant as it as equally as nasty who ever you are. Nastiness of all kinds is, well . . . nasty. I don't see any reason to make a special case of sexist talk. It all comes down to manners. It's just good manners not to say things that will clearly upset someone else. Those of us brought up to be sensitive to the feelings of others don't need special rules about a few selected '-isms'. A problem with the current PC ideas is that some people develop a heightened sense of persecution. That leads others to develop an underground culture that can be far worse than any remarks they might otherwise have made. Thus we have whispers behind people's backs, and a weird public hypocrisy in which there is an 'official' standard of behaviour and a de facto underground one. A bit like Victorian sexual morality: very unhealthy. I was specifically discussing what might put women off working in engineering (as they clearly are!) and you have chosen to take it as a personal affront to men in general and clearly, you in particular. I am sorry if you feel that you, as a white middle class male, Well I'm not middle class for a start, so that bit of stereotyping won't wash! are hard done by but you have to fight your own battles rather than expecting me to fight my own and then yours too. I think that's what I was saying to you. If you are so keen to ignore sexism why are you getting so upset that women are just as sexist as men. Surely, you should just be ignoring it. I'm making the point that it cuts both ways, and that unless it's grossly offensive the individual is best advised to ignore it. To be pragmatic, why be a pain in the arse in the workplace or anywhere else, if you can reasonably avoid it? You're arguing with the wrong person here, you know. You should be seeking out the guys who regard women as inferior creatures, not someone like me, who holds them in high regard. Just to let you know me a bit better: 1. I have two daughters in high powered careers, and I would be pretty mad if either of them suffered real sexual discrimination. 2. Part of the reason they have good jobs is that I pushed them hard and told them that their gender should not be allowed to hold them back. 3. I am strongly opposed to any sort of discrimination that results from something that isn't the individual's fault. 4. It's my view that as a generalisation women have an innate advantage over men when it comes to many occupations. And of course the opposite applies. But it's a generalisation. Individuals can prove it wrong in their own case. 5. I'm one of those odd blokes who seem to make friends with woman more easily than I make friends with men. Women do seem to like me, and enjoy chatting. I'm confident they don't find me oppressively sexist! 6. You know how it is, over the years we all (if we are wise) gather around us a circle of trusted tradespeople and professionals. Obviously the ones that stay in that circle are the ones that perform, and that should of course be irrespective or gender or any other irrelevant characteristic. In my circle there are several females: especially Sally the cabinet maker, an electrician, a local private hire driver, and others that I don't want to list here. But take a look at this website. No one, not even the most dyed in the wool reactionary sexist bigot could deny that this person is at the top of her profession. What's more she's a bloody nice lass! Ohh, was that sexist? Oh dear, better have me shot! http://www.sallyclarkefurniture.co.uk/ Bill |
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Roderick Stewart wrote:
It requires learning stuff and actually getting it right, otherwise things don't work. You can't bluff your way through the laws of physics, or hide things from them, or appeal to their better nature, the way you can sometimes get away with when dealing with people. Well the thing about arts subjects is, let's be honest, you can get away with writing the most appalling ********, and if it fits the current orthodoxy you're OK. Bill |
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Norman Wells wrote:
Roderick Stewart wrote: I'd have loved to have done metalwork and electronics but they weren't available, so I had to pursue these interests on my own. Like me and sex then? I think with sex it was better to work in pairs, you know like when there weren't enough textbooks to go rounds No, thinking about it, not like that really. And now I come to think of it, in my boys only school learning about sex in pairs was actually frowned on. Bill |
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Yellow wrote:
Biology was also standard while Chemistry was only available to those who did well enough in that subject and maths. Only the very top pupils in the year were allowed to take Physics! No metal work. No wood work. No technical drawing. Ridiculous. We lads weren't allowed to do Home Economics even at the mixed school. And we only did French for a term after the two single sex schools were amalgamated.(Bit of a story there) My brother went to the all boys school and made the most beautiful wooden table that my mother still has in her livingroom but of course, he did not learn to either sew or keep house. My friend Sally was allowed to join the lads and do woodwork, and she made a career out of it in the end. Bill |
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Max Demian wrote:
In the upper streams there was a significant aversion to teaching children to do anything of practical use in the real world. Certainly no chance of boys learning how to cook. Home --digs -- marriage seemed to be the assumption. The thing is, most teachers, particularly when we were at school, were pretty useless at practical things. I exclude from this the emergency trained ones. Bill |
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Well the thing about arts subjects is, let's be honest, you can get
away with writing the most appalling ********, and if it fits the current orthodoxy you're OK. The same is now true of some GCSE physics papers ![]() -- Robin reply to address is (meant to be) valid |
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In article , Bill Wright
wrote: Max Demian wrote: In the upper streams there was a significant aversion to teaching children to do anything of practical use in the real world. Certainly no chance of boys learning how to cook. Home --digs -- marriage seemed to be the assumption. The thing is, most teachers, particularly when we were at school, were pretty useless at practical things. I exclude from this the emergency trained ones. Weren't you a teacher once, Bill? -- From KT24 Using a RISC OS computer running v5.18 |
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